Unconditional Love - Part II

Check out Unconditional Love - Part I, then come back to Part II.

It’s that love that is unexplainable, the kind of love that a parent has for their child that no matter what your kid might do, that’s still your kid and you will always support them and love them. And yes, I understand that your child is your responsibility and more importantly, is literally a piece of you, but shouldn’t you put just as much effort into nurturing your relationship as you do rearing your child. Whether good or bad, you are your child’s first image of a relationship, so they learn how to function in a relationship from you. Every action and word is a lesson, and those lessons will shape their image of what it is to love and be loved.

It’s the kind of love we seek from our significant others and proclaim to give. But is it a reality? Can we really share that level of maturity and love? The kind of love that transcends all, looks beyond most, and never takes score. Let’s be honest. We all have our flaws, idiosyncrasies, differences, but that’s what makes us who we are. The trick is trying to mesh two individuals together to become a unit, a like-minded balancing act, seeking to develop a life-long relationship.

A very wise friend told me a while back that you get out of your relationship whatever you put into it. If it’s always a competition and you feel you always have to win, no compromise, no sacrifice, no holds barred, is that really a relationship or a battle royale? Or are you more concerned with putting on airs and portraying a superior image, never vulnerable, always wanting to tower above, never allowing your significant other to shine? Is it about U and only U or is it about the betterment of the relationship and U and Me becoming We.

Can you say that you love unconditionally or have been loved unconditionally? What does that mean to U to be loved unconditionally? How do you display your love and does your significant other feel that love is unconditional or are there unspoken strings attached to that love?

Comment, speak up, voice your opinions. This isn’t just about U or just about Me, but all about We. The only way We grow is if We work together, learn from each other, help each other, and support each other. Read the previous posts and comment on them as well. Suggest new topics and ideas, be active and spread the word.

Check back soon for the next post entitled, "Can You 'F'?" Trust, you don't want to miss it!

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Unconditional Love - Part I

If I say “I Love You”, believe you me, it’s not a lie,

Because when I say, “I Love You,” I mean it ‘til the day I die…

For me love is so much more than just feelings and infatuation,

Love to me is thoughts, actions and words that transcend mere imagination…

Over the years I’ve discovered the true meaning of this thing we call love,

For when it’s real and true, we not only get our earthly blessings, but also those from Heaven above…

True love means being considerate, being romantic and showing affection,

True love means being a good listener, a provider of all needs and giving protection... Everyone has their own definition of true love and will find it in due time,

But for me, I need a woman who is willing and able to seduce my body, spirit and mind…

See physical attraction is great, and spiritual kinship is bliss,

But when you make love to the mind, this is the sort of love that can’t be easily dismissed…

Although I have spoken these three words before, and not to say it was not what I meant,

It’s just now I really understand the true meaning and its’ full extent…

Love will make you blind, but it will also open your heart,

Love will bring two people together letting them know this is where “WE” start…

A start of a partnership, a new adventure, and dreams and fantasies untold,

A companion who will always be there through thick and thin to the day you grow old…

So when you say, “I Love You,” say it from the heart and make the moment sentimental,

And let that special one know your love is unconditional. BlakkDiamond

Labor of Love

To light the match, let’s start where everything begins. It’s an age-old question that differs with each answer. You can call it what you like. Mars vs. Venus, nature vs. nurture, Adam and Eve, but what it all boils down to is what is it that a man desires opposed to what is it that a woman desires. Is there a difference? Is there a definitive answer? YES! Each individual knows exactly what they want, what will satisfy them, what will make them happy, but it varies for each person and no two people are alike. The conundrum is finding a happy medium where you gain your heart’s desire and also fulfill your significant others’ deepest hopes and wants.

Life’s experiences have given me an opportunity to grow and learn and decipher exactly I am seeking, as well as what I have to offer. Life has taught many lessons on many levels, but the greatest of these is the appreciation and understanding of what LOVE truly can be. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 reads, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” That’s a mouth full and a lot to digest and regardless of your spiritual beliefs, I believe we can all agree that all relationships are a labor of love in some way. No matter where you may be in your relationship, you only get out of it what you put into it and every action causes a ripple effect. Think about a single drop of water landing into a larger pool of water and the resulting effect. So is it when two individuals meet and their lives suddenly become intertwined, constantly evolving, and broadening infinitely. It’s a change from U and Me to now We and here is where it’s gets interesting and what we will continue to explore.

This is for all of us, so please don’t hesitate to comment, make suggestions, speak your mind, take the polls, get involved. This is just the beginning. We will have plenty to discuss and the topics will range far and wide and cover every conceivable aspect. There will be interviews and videos soon to come as well. So, sign up, follow the site, and tell your family and friends. It isn’t just about U or Me, but all about We.

P.S. If you want to know a little more about BlakkDiamond and his thoughts, check back soon for the next post entitled “Unconditional Love.”

Welcome to U, Me and We

Welcome to U, Me and We. First and foremost, I hope you find this to be intriguing, informative and entertaining. I’ve been contemplating this notion for a while and instead of internalizing it and keeping it to myself, I thought what would be better than to share it with all and spark a constructive and spirited conversation.

The idea behind U, Me and We is to dissect and learn more about the differences between men and women and how these differences shape our interactions in all phases of relationships. Whether you are single and seeking, dating and deciding, or married and mulling, the variables are infinite and everything affects who we are and what we desire. Hopefully, we can take this ride together, explore what makes us tick, provoke some mind stimulating conversations, and most importantly, learn from each other and find a common ground on which to build stronger, committed, prosperous and lasting relationships.

Welcome to U, Me and We!!!